20041013 Wednesday October 13, 2004

Just celebrated my 13th wedding anniversary (10/12/91)

In this day and age where on average 1 in every 2 marriages end in divorce (at least that's what I keep hearing in the US media), I am so very happy to have been able to celebrate my 13th wedding anniversary (10/12/91) with my best half, Patrick. We've had lots of adventures and so if you are interested, read on:

How we met: Through a mutual friend at Humboldt State University in 1989

1st Date: Dinner and a movie (Stephen King's Pet Semetery)

1st major separation: Patrick graduated in 1990 from HSU, I had one more year to go so we had a long distance relationship for a year

Our honeymoon: Given that I was still in college at SJSU when we married, we didn't have much time so we spent a weekend in San Diego right after our wedding and then 6 months later, we went to Las Vegas for our official honeymoon.

His first major "stand by her side for support moment": My grandmother passed away the night of our wedding; Patrick and his family were there by my side to support me in my time of grief. They've been there ever since :) I did the same for him and his family when they lost his youngest brother at age 29, wouldn't have done anywhere else!

1st Family Pet: A black kitty that we adopted from the Humane Society, she was my graduation present from HSU and I named her "Morticia" She's been gone for a long time now but we now have Peyton, Scarlett, Ashes, & Arwen (cats) and Glory and Lycos (dogs) sharing our lives.

1st home together: When I graduated in 1991, I joined Patrick in the Bay Area - we lived in a studio apartment in Sunnyvale.

1st home we bought: We bought our first home in Fremont, by way of Sunnyvale, Concord, and San Jose

1st car we bought together: Patrick had a car when I met him (a Honda CRX), I didn't so we ended up purchasing a Toyota Corolla

1st exotic trip together: Our first trip together outside of the United States was to Germany / Austria and England...Patrick had to do an audit there for the Defense Department and I tagged along!

Latest exotic trip together: Our latest trip outside the United States was a visit to Brazil and Guatemala.

Just a sampling of what we've experienced together...here's looking to many more adventures with one of the most significant influences in my life.

Patrick, when you read this, remember, I will always love you :) ( Oct 13 2004, 09:37:39 AM PDT ) Permalink Comments [1]
Comments:

oh, good. congratulations! I came to this blog because the heading showed up as "I just celebrated my 13th wedding..." and was pretty amazed. :-)

Posted by SH on October 14, 2004 at 07:53 AM PDT #

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