Thursday May 29, 2008
Weekend in Hong Kong
We finally got around to hop over to Hong Kong for an extended weekend. It was a great trip. The kids got to visit a Disneyland, we got to see a unique place in Asia, where East meets West on so many levels, and we had the best meal in a very long time. Who can ask for more?
The Air China flight to Hong Kong was uneventful. It was code shared with Dragon Air and Cathay Pacific, it was packed, it left on time and arrived earlier, the luggage came out on time. As I said, uneventful in the most positive way. We took a Cathay Pacific package deal for this trip, and it's important to say: it was flawless. We shall do it again. The shuttle from the airport to the hotel left on time. We arrived at the hotel, checked in and were ready to go out and hit the town in no time.
Usually, when we sign up for a vacation package, we have no dilemmas. For a reasonably small addition to the price, you get a substantially better hotel. I always sign up for the better (or best) hotels available. I never regret it. The Royal Plaza, right in the middle of Kowloon, is excellent, easily accessible to taxis and subways, and is in the middle of things, walking distance from Price Edward and Nathan streets. We could have stayed at the Disney Resort, but the travel agent told us (and she was absolutely right) that the advantage of being close to Disneyland will be completely lost when we would want to go visit Hong Kong or Kowloon. We stayed in Kowloon, and used ferries, buses, subway trains, boats, and feet to move around. It was great.We used Gray Line for the Disneyland tour. Waste of money and even worse, waste of time. Disneyland is easily (really) accessible from every part of town, by subway. It's cheap, efficient, and very quick and comfortable. Gray Line took roughly ninety minutes to bring us to Disneyland. It took us twenty minutes to get back on the subway. For a fraction of the price.
Disneyland is like other Disneyland parks in other places around the world. I was at the one in Anaheim California twice. Both were great, but I like Disney in Hong Kong better. It's smaller. It's less crowded. And the bottom line was, we spent a fraction of the time standing in lines. In fact, we took some rides twice (one even thrice), without spending hours on line. In multiple occasions, the attendants just allowed us to stay, skipping the line altogether.
If you want to smile a lot, Disneyland is the place for you.
Shiri and Guy had a blast. I got a broken back. We spent almost twelve hours at Disneyland, and it was time well spent. Guy fell asleep on the subway, and had no recollection of being carried to the hotel, put in PJs, and in bed. It must have been overwhelming. It was for me too.
Next day we signed up for a trip around town. Gray Line again, but this time it was well worth it. We went to Victoria Peak, to the oldest Buddhism temple in Hong Kong, and to the Stanley market. Stanley Market was the last stop, so we didn't even bother to take the bus back. We stayed there. Later we took a double decker bus to the harbor, on the Hong Kong side, and walked around some, then took a ferry across the harbor to the Kowloon side.
We rather accidentally found Dan Ryan's Chicago Grill at the shopping mall next to the harbor. All we needed to see on the menu was ribs and barbecue chicken. We were all set. A full slab and a half of baby back ribs, plus two halves barbecued chickens, plus the baked and fried potatoes, cole slaw, A1 Steak Sauce. We were home.
The kids devoured the chickens, and tasted the ribs. In fifteen minutes, the table looked as if a pack of wolves just left, leaving behind scores of bones and leftovers. And then the funniest thing happened. In fact two things happened, and only one was funny, and even that – not to me.
As we finished our dinner, Dorit and the kids went to the bathroom. As they were leaving for the bathroom, the couple sitting right next to us paid and left as well. Thirty seconds later, a new couple was seated right next to us. Imagine that. A single, chubby person (that would be me), sitting in front of a table that looked as if four really hungry people just finished a large meal. I could see in their eyes that they were actually contemplating if I was responsible for the situation on my own. And while they were contemplating, I was starting to worry. Because the family did not make it back from the restroom. And atypical to me, the worst nightmarish scenarios started to hit my tired head.
They came back after a long while. That wasn't funny.
The next morning we hit the streets and the stores. We didn't buy a whole lot, but we did have a good time. The local Pizza Hut, by the way, is nothing to write home about.
Bottom line: package deal with Cathay – absolutely. Gray Line to Disney – no way. Gray Line around town – yes. Hong Kong - Yea!
Posted at 10:50PM May 29, 2008 by Amiram Hayardeny in Personal | Comments[1]
Monday May 26, 2008
Two Years in Beijing
On April 20, 2006, yours truly had arrived in Beijing, on his own, with
a job to start and a bridgehead to establish for the family who
followed a couple of months later. Two years isn't an extremely long
period of time, but it is long enough to consider when reviewing
periods of time that changed my life. My China Experience changed my
life and my family's life on so many levels, I can't begin to tell
you. Let me try nonetheless. taxi drivers
Posted at 09:34PM May 26, 2008 by Amiram Hayardeny in Personal | Comments[1]
Global Warming - a DIfferent View
It all started with some strange guy who started warning about "global
warning" a few years ago. Many heard the news item and thought -
there's another lunatic with a warning. They all remembered
Nostradamus, and his friends in every century, who diligently predicted
the end of the world. Prophecies which were updated as soon as they
didn't come true. Turn of centuries, midnights, full moons, sun
storms, comets, all came and went, and the earth people (that's us)
remained. They didn't repent, they didn't pray, they continued to
invent new stuff which created more warnings, which never came true,
etcetera, etcetera, etcetera.
Then came the warning about the melting of the icebergs. Some concerns
were registered, particularly in the far northern hemisphere, where
most residents are Eskimos and seals. Most of the population just
turned to one another and said "oh well", and went on to the local pub
for a drink. Next came a really scary news piece about the rising
temperatures, and that apparently the last decade was the hottest on
record or something. Some eyebrows were raised, but most people went
on to the beach, were the warm breeze took off the edge of the
outstanding heat. Life went on.
Then WNN aired some really really disturbing footage about the cities
along the shores of the oceans, and that in a few years, they will all
be covered in seawater. People in those cities went outside and
checked whether their windows and doors will be above the new sea
level, and same for their favorite stores, pubs, parks and so on. They
also went ahead and checked that aunt Petunia's home would definitely
be covered with water, and so would be the police station. Once that
was out of the way, they went on with their business. The ones who
discovered that their homes will most likely be underwater, took a few
sessions with the local psychotherapist, to refresh their denial
techniques. They too went back to the annual barbecue which was
producing smoke as much as the local utility's chimney.
Then the media claimed with absolute certainty that the "permafrost in
Russia" is melting, and that will let out millions of metric tons of
some unknown Methane gas into the atmosphere, doubling the amount of
greenhouse gases in the atmosphere in a very short time. There was
some anxiety, but it turned out to be unrelated. It was about the
local football team losing miserably this season. The people
remembered from their biology classes that methane is also produced
when sheep in New Zealand fart. So, they said, what's another real big
sheep flatulence? They went on to walk the dog, who happened to have
had chilly for dinner...
Then came the food shortages, which was the result of the droughts,
which was a direct result to the warming of the earth, and the lack of
rain. Desertification became a word known by every single third
grader. But that was more because of that show "Are You Smarter than a
Fifth Grader?" than because of the actual drought. Some nervous
breakdowns were recorded around the world, but WNN aired a piece about
desert resorts, and everyone calmed down and booked their vacations
early. Prices skyrocketed.
Nobody got too excited over the "dying of the rain forests". Many
people just said they can do without them, and the rain is really
needed elsewhere...
Then the earth was on fire. Literally. Wildfires were spotted
everywhere, burning everything in their way. But it was too late
already. The earth burned, then the ice melted, the cities were
covered with water, there was no food, water was contaminated,
livestock around the world died of plagues, the earth died. So did we.
I don't know if global warming is real, and if it is how real and how
quick it is. But just in case it is, don't you want to do something
about it?
Posted at 09:33PM May 26, 2008 by Amiram Hayardeny in Personal | Comments[2]
Tattoos, Babies, and the Israeli Flag
The picture below broke a personal record for me. The elapsed time between seeing this picture and the first tear could be measured in nanoseconds. But that was one record broken, there were a few more. The parade of feelings and memories. Personal, familial, tribal and global all came streaming. Faces of the living and the dead. Faces of old an young, of happy and sad. Of friends and foes.
As
I'm writing these words, it occurs to me that explanation is necessary.
The blue and white Israeli flag, the tattooed hand of an old lady, and
the chubby little hand of a baby. Many are familiar with chubby little
hands. Less may be familiar with the Israeli flag. Few are familiar
with old ladies with tattooed numbers on their hands.
When I was young, Israel was full of those. They weren't so old back then, they had tattooed numbers on their hands, and it was said: those with the numbers on their hands. Having this number on the hand was the clearest, gruesome, chilling evidence that these people had something in common. They belonged to a certain club. Not the kind of club you might be thinking about. Not an upper class Golf club, not a Yacht club. Not even an exceptional fraternity or sorority, although one might claim that it was precisely that. These people spent time in the darkest places ever to have existed on this planet. And they lived to tell. They were the survivors of Hitler's death camps.
The German, in their incredible effectiveness and order, kept records of every single person they ever de-humanized, and ultimately killed. Every person who entered the gates of the death camps was branded. Like cattle. They were branded with a serial number. When their turn came to be eliminated, the records could have been set straight, that this once human, professional, family person, Jew - is no longer. Mission accomplished.
But some, against all odds, survived. They rose from the ashes, they picked whatever was left of their humanity, dignity, of their families, of their former lives and former identities, and went to Israel. There, slowly, carefully, with a lot of help, patience and love, some of them were able to rebuild. To put together families, businesses, and a country. Imagine that.
I don't have a clue who the people in the picture are. But the old hand, with the tattoo is my grandmother's, and the chubby little hand is mine. The flag is my country's. It's irrelevant that my grandmother is no longer with us, and that I no longer am a baby. Both my grandmother and I have a strong connection to the land of Israel. The three elements in the picture are combined into one big evidence - we're here to stay.
* The picture was taken by Karen Gillerman-Harel. The picture won the
contest "Israel Sixtieth Birthday Flag". All rights reserved to Karen
Gillerman-Harel.
Posted at 09:28PM May 26, 2008 by Amiram Hayardeny in Personal | Comments[10]
Thursday May 22, 2008
And the Winner Is.....
David Cook. I told you. As I said just a few weeks ago: I will get his CDs, and wait in line for a conert ticket. David Cook rocks!
Posted at 07:48PM May 22, 2008 by Amiram Hayardeny in Personal | Comments[0]
To Stroller or Not To Stroller, That is the Question
Here's a dilemma: you have a five year old, you're
going on a trip and you wonder: to stroller or not to stroller. If you
decide to go with the stroller, you risk schlepping around with some
extra weight, struggling to fold the damn thing at the most critical
moments of the day (I swear, the thing knows when when not to fold).
In addition, you risk people making fun of your kid, and of you, for
being taken for a ride. Literally. The alternative isn't better at
all. Guy will just stop sometime during the day, and guess what - my
shoulders are a pretty comfortable chair. It's only unfortunate that I
don't have enough hair to provide something to hold on to, but my ears
actually provide reasonable handles.
A few months ago, before a trip to Thailand we had a similar dilemma,
we chose to go with a stroller. But to avoid an unnecessary waste of
money, we decided on the cheapest looking stroller in the store. The
store attendant was shocked. The stroller was apparently on display
for years, only to show young parents what stroller not to buy.
To make a long story short, on the first day in Bangkok, at the Old
Palace, the stroller caved in. Guy disappeared in the wreckage and we
had to get him out. We looked around, and when we thought nobody was
looking, we left the collection of fabric and scrap metal near a relatively remote garbage
can. The stroller survived the trip, but didn't make the first day in
Bangkok. R.I.P.
This time, for our trip to Hong Kong, we had the same dilemma. The
stroller strategy won again, but this time, we went to the same store, and asked for the absolute best
stroller. The attendant was contemplating whether or not to call Child
Services, but the prospect of making a big sale convinced him not to.
We took a brand new, Ferrari red, ship shape, spic n' span stroller. A
Rolls Royce. The mother of all strollers. We were happy. Sudden relaxation went throuh my shoulders.
Of course it didn't fit in the trunk, and of course we had to check it
in at the oversized luggage counter. But throughout all these small
problems, we knew: Guy will not spend the day on his father's tired and
old shoulders. Or so we wished.
We picked up the stroller at the Hong Kong International Airport. Guy
jumped in, and promptly disappeared within. A few minutes later, we
realized, the Master Stroller caved in exactly like the old one. The thing never made it out of the arrival hall at the airport, we dumped it near carouselle number 2.
If you are a world traveler, and you happen by an abandoned stroller, orphaned, standing alone in some corner, wondering why, you would know: the Hayardenys were here...
We
are now considering artificial shoulders as an alternative.
Guy, by the way, was not unhappy with the results. He mentioned
though, that when we get back to Beijing, he would want a new
stroller. "No comment" was my answer.
Posted at 07:17PM May 22, 2008 by Amiram Hayardeny in Personal | Comments[1]
Monday May 19, 2008
Earthquake in China IV - In Memoriam
The state of Israel uses the air raid siren systems three times a year
for commemoration rather than "the real thing". Every year, on the
twenty seventh day of the Hebrew month of Nissan (usually around
April), at 11:00 AM the siren goes off in commemoration of the six
million Jews killed by the Nazis during WWII. Every year, on the
fourth day of the month of Iyar at 8:00 PM, and the following morning
at 11:00 AM, the sirens wail in commemoration of the Israeli soldiers
who lost their lives defending the homeland, and the victims of hostile
attacks on Israelis around the world. The expected behavior, when
hearing the sirens cries, is to stop whatever it is that you're doing,
and pay your respects by standing straight, your head bowing, thinking
of all those who made your life a possibility. It's a very uniting
act, and it always gave me the feeling of being part of something a lot
larger than myself. For a declared atheist, this is a significant
deviation from an individual point of view, to the collective. Yet, I
always thought that it is a proper way to show that you too, are part
of this collective, and that you too appreciate the sacrifice. It's an
exercise in humility.
Today, May nineteenth, 2008, I experienced the same in Beijing, only
many orders of magnitudes larger. It was an amazing experience.
At 2:28 PM, exactly the time when the earthquake struck, China came to
a halt. Beijing came to a standstill. Millions upon millions of
people around the country stopped whatever they were doing, stood
straight, their heads bowed down, paying their respects to the dead, to
the people who lost their lives in the earthquake last week. Lines and
lines of people stood there, motionless, thinking. The drivers were
honking their horns. Millions of horns with the air raid siren
sounding in the background was indeed a surrealistic sound, and the
scene was as surreal.
I can only imagine what they were thinking. I know what I was
thinking. I was thinking how would I do if I went through an ordeal as
such, and survived. I was thinking, how would I save my family, my
friends, total strangers. I was thinking about the sheer power of
nature. I was hoping. I was wishing.
For a few minutes there, I was part of a much larger group. Probably
the largest ever to be standing at the same time, respecting the same
victims, mourning. A lesson in humility, larger than life. Larger
than a million lives.
Posted at 09:27PM May 19, 2008 by Amiram Hayardeny in Personal | Comments[2]
Thursday May 15, 2008
CNN, China, and the One-Child Policy
CNN and others have brought a very sensitive issue in recent days, in light of the horrible disaster in China. The One Child Policy. Here's the “sensitive” title: “Parents' losses compounded by China's one-child policy”.
Regardless of the outstanding sense of timing in bringing it up. Regardless of whether or not I agree with the policy. It's inconsequential.
What is absolutely consequential is that it's unethical to even discuss it when people, any people, are counting their dead.
But if you read carefully, can you tell what's hiding behind the relatively innocent criticism? Yes, of course, the One Child Policy is unacceptable in Western terms. But ask any parent, and they will tell you: it matters not how many children you have. When you lose a child, your world collapses, your life becomes a prolonged misery.
Does CNN actually suggest that if the poor Chinese who lost their children in the disaster would feel better if they had another child? How dare they? How dare anyone?
What's even worse, is that given the circumstances, many families lost more than one child. Many families lost everything. For many who survived life will undoubtedly change forever.
My advice to CNN: use a little bit of judgment, some ethics, and a lot of sensitivity. Please.
Posted at 09:28PM May 15, 2008 by Amiram Hayardeny in Personal | Comments[11]
Tuesday May 13, 2008
Earthquake in China II
Lets get this out of the way first: I live and work in China, I love
China, and there's a good chance that the following will not be
impartial. You have been warned.
Two natural disasters have hit Asia in recent weeks. A major Cyclone
has hit Myanmar, and an extremely powerful earthquake has hit China
yesterday, May 12. Lets try and look at how the two countries are
dealing with the disasters inflicted on them.
Myanmar can't assist the survivors. The country is poor, poorly ruled,
and simply can't provide the aid necessary for the survivors of the
storm to stay alive. The government, aware of its shortcomings, isn't
allowing foreign aid to enter the country and help the situation.
Worse. The government is actually putting its hand on the aid, keeping
the best to itself. The government in Myanmar is responsible to the
deaths of thousands of its own people, maybe more. In fact, the
government of Myanmar is killing its own people, denying them the
assistance they need to survive.
China had mobilized help quickly. Against the elements, against time.
The Chinese are obviously doing the best they can to reach the area, to
conduct a search and rescue operation. In Beijing people are donating
money, clothes, food and blood. From where I am it's obvious. China,
the government, as well as the people, feels the pain, and is
mobilizing to help.
I have been in China for over two years. I've visited the Great Wall
of China, the Forbidden City and the Terracotta Warriors. I've been
eating Chinese food, watching Chinese movies, and drinking Chinese
beer. Always, though, feeling as a foreigner. Yesterday, in less than
a minute, I became Chinese. As I was sitting in my office, feeling the
earth shaking, fearing the worst, I became part of this great people.
Out in the hallways, and later downstairs we were all standing together
with our cellphones, trying to reach our loved ones, trying to
understand the magnitude of the disaster.
Today, as I follow the news, as we all realize that this disaster is only beginning to unfold, I am not a foreigner anymore.
As is the nature of disasters like this one, it will take weeks before
the gruesome tally is finalized. I fear that we have only started to
understand the severity of the earthquake. It took a few minutes, and
thousands of people lost their lives, their loved ones, their homes.
And I was pretty close. I am grateful, I am worried, I sympathize.
There are a lot of feelings going on these days.
We, at Sun China are going to organize a fund raiser for the victims of
the earthquake. It's the least we can do. From Beijing, let me send
my condolences to all who lost their loved ones, a get well wishes to
all the injured ones, and most importantly, that all who are still
alive and under the rubble, are found quickly and survive their
ordeal. If I was a believer, I would start praying for them now.
To the Burmese government I will say: shame on you. Open your doors,
allow foreign help in. We don't really care what we find there, but
let us help your dying people.
Posted at 09:51PM May 13, 2008 by Amiram Hayardeny in Personal | Comments[5]
Monday May 12, 2008
Earthqauake in Beijing
I have experienced earthquakes before. Living in
California for a while, and even once in Tel Aviv, I remember clearly -
it was not a pleasant experience. But today was a completely different
experience. I was sitting in my office on the tenth floor of the
Chuangxin (Innovation) Plaza at the Tsinghua Science Park in Beijing,
China. I was on the phone, and I found my self saying: "excuse me, but
my building is moving, I think we're experiencing an earthquake". The
person on the other line yelled: "then what are you doing talking to
me? Get the hell out of there".
I went to the hallway to see a bunch of people, like me holding
cellular phones, looking confused, not sure what to do. The swaying
subsided. I returned to the office only to realize that we were
advised to leave the building. We did. Downstairs, a large crowd, all
or most holding cellular phones, was waiting for further instructions.
The All Clear came relatively quickly.
Turned out to have been a powerful earthquake, between 7.5-7.8 on the
Richter scale. That's no laughing matter. Anyway, all is well. It
was a scare.
Posted at 04:37PM May 12, 2008 by Amiram Hayardeny in Personal | Comments[4]
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