As I shared in my last post, my experience at the Special Olympics Winter Game taught me some valuable lessons about spirit, courage, determination and conviction.  The event wasn't just about winter sports, it was about being an athlete, and participating. 

In my new definition, and athlete is not just someone with superb physical abilities.  An athlete is someone with the mindset to do more.... it's competing all day, in spite of obstacles that would make most folks stay home.  It's about doing your best all day on the course, then attending the ceremonies for the event.  And then it's about the DANCE.

While escorting Mary through the ceremonies, I was truly speechless. I now know what it feels like to be a movie star on the red carpet at the Oscars.  We were blinded by the flashbulbs.  The turnout to cheer the athletes and the teams was mind boggling.  The joy on the athlete's faces, the excitement, was indescribable.  I witnessed in wonder as the athletes enjoyed the fireworks display, the bright flashes lighting the faces.  Me, quiet and reflective.  Holding Mary's hand.  Feeling like I had a special invitation to a community where only the most fortunate get a chance to visit.  I am blessed.

 And then, like most fireworks, poof, big bang, they are over.  The athletes moved on to the big event - the DANCE.  I gained more appreciation for human interaction than one would have thought from such an event.  I am totally convinced we could have world peace and stop global warming if these amazing athletes were involved in such issues. 

It goes something like this.  You see someone you want to dance with, you just go and dance with that person.  No hemming and hawing, you just join in.  If you see someone you might like, you give them a hug, then dance. You are always welcomed. You improvise, making dance circle, with some people sharing the middle, but no matter what you don't stop moving.  More capable athletes look after those that need extra attention, even if they don't know that person.  And, you smile.  You laugh.  You keep smiling.

 If you do need to stop moving, you step out side to the tables for a break.  More world peace activities happen here as well. Same goes, if there is a group talking that looks like fun, you just join in.  No hassles, or invitations required.  Just come on over.  Pull up a chair.  Say hi.  And, you are in.  That simple. 

I was truly blessed to participate at the Special Olympics Winter games.  Me, unfortunately, I'm not as much an athlete as the others.  I wimped out, I couldn't make it through the entire dance.  Exhaustion overcame all else -