This is just to say
There are some burdens in my life that I want help bearing. Grief, loneliness, heavy furniture. I am grateful for the help I've received in carrying these things.
I do not need help bearing grudges. If I'm carrying one, I'm glad that you care. But if I set it down, just leave it there, just forget it and walk on. I'm not strong enough to carry a grudge and a smile, and I know which one I want.
