I should be so lucky to have such a rich "social life". Instead, I feel overloaded and overwhelmed. First, with the social networking I need to keep up with for my job. I mean, I *am* on Facebook, LinkedIn, Plaxo, NotchUp, StumbleUpon, Ryze, mynetbeans.org. I blog; I wiki; I IM; I Gtalk; I Flickr, Frappr, and Picasa. I've tried and discarded meebo and GAIM (aka Pidgin). (Don't tell anyone, but I've also tried meetup.com, bayarealinkup, PlentyOfFish and YahooPersonals.)
I spend way too much time (personal, of course) on YouTube or netbeans.tv, or buying/selling junk I don't need on Amazon, ebay, and craigslist. I live on wikipedia and IMDB (I don't care if they are reliable sources of info or not). I subscribe to freecycle, a number of "keep in touch" career and job lists, and open source mailing lists. I've been known to even lurk around on classmates.com (oops, my ex found his new wife there).
I already feel ubiquitous.
But I don't Twitter, ICQ, IRC, or Skype. I'm not on MySpace or Orkut. (BTW, all the fun Brazilians are on the latter, so I am joining today!) No digg or del.icio.us for me. No time or money for gaming (whether play games or betting). Not even Second Life, where Sun has a pavilion.
Frankly, no one would consider me with it.
How can I keep up? Every day I get an invitation to join a new social networking tool, application, service. Recent invitations are for: Shelfari, iZimundi, Spock, ServiceBuzz, and Hoverspot.
Please, someone, tell me how to spend my time in an effective way in the social vertigo spinning out of control around me.
Secondly, I can't even keep up with the Sun apps and tools that drive the social network or are a player in them. In fact, some things I am just finding out about this week. Here are Sun "things" I didn't know about, even though they sit prominently on the sun.com home page:
Today I took a mini class in blogging. Tonight it's a conference call on how to work with communities.
That first question on the Sun wikis home sums it up for me: "Where do I start?". Or maybe I should ask: "Where do I end?"

