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What is the tolerance level for kids?

Friday Jul 25, 2008

So much of the experience of a 10-hour international flight depends on your temporary neighbours, so I was a little anxious when finding out that the 2 seats next to me on my flight from Amsterdam to San Francisco were occupied by a mother with her 2 young kids.  From experience, I know that the noise level can be quite high.

It turned out that this was quite OK, apart from some crying during take-off and landing (as expected), the kids were fairly quiet.  However, that did not prevent them from being quite a nuisance.  Both kids (I estimate at 4 and 2 years) were running around often, constantly bumping into me, the boy was swinging the headset, and hit me on a few occasions.  I am pretty certain that he did some damage to the tray table on his seat.

And it was not only me who was bothered with this, as I saw stewardesses tell the mother to keep the children from wildly running around on at least 2 occasions.

Here's my dilemma: at what point is your tolerance point exceeded?  When do you start to complain to the mother?  At some point I was very close to talk to the mother, but then I saw how exhausted she looked, and I decided against it.  I kept it to a few very stern looks at the boy.  After all, it looked like the mom had more trouble than I had, and it was only 10 hours of my life.

What would you do in a similar situation?  At what point do you decide to take action?  And also, how high (or low) is your tolerance level for adults on flights?

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I've had a few of those...I gather only the 2 year old cried during take-off and landing and it was the 4 year old clubbing you with the headset...

My experience with misbehaving kids is to treat them just like an adult, funnily enough just politely asking them to stop usually gets them to stop. Unfortunately the longer you wait to do this the more difficult.

The crying I think is acceptable as flight can be quite a daunting experience. If I ever mistakenly have kids I will be avoiding taking them on planes at all costs :)

Posted by Che Kristo on July 25, 2008 at 12:28 PM CEST #

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