One of the highlights of our trip to Israel was finding my great uncle Zimel Resnick.
After his death in 1971, Uncle Zimel's body was flown to Israel for burial in a military
cemetary outside of Tel Aviv, with the "Fighters of Gallipoli" from the First World War.
We've known that he was buried in Israel, a land that he loved dearly for all of his adult
life, but I was the first from our family to locate his grave. A 35-year search, and one
that I'll remember for quite some time.
I have only vague memories of Zimel. He was always larger than life; hanging out
with politicians and soldiers and sometimes shady characters. He was a mix of
Tony Soprano and Tony Bennett, ever the showman, ever the fixer. By day, Zimel
was part owner of
Palace Amusements in Asbury Park, NJ, made famous later by the other Boss
of New Jersey. By night, he was a devout Zionist, and campaigned endlessly
for planting trees in Israel, sold bonds for Israel, and more surreptiously,
procured weapons
to be used in the 1948 War for Israeli Independence. Visits to Zimel's home
in Asbury Park for holidays were a test of your endurance, as his pre-food services
sometimes lasted hours and included both the official version of the service
as well as his own interpretation of the texts.
My favorite Zimel story comes from the nephew he called, in his still-thick
Russian accent, "Zhoe", using the Cyrillic double-X in place of the Latin J.
Zimel would meet various sources for guns, ammunition, parts of tanks and
airplanes, and other weapons at the top of the ferris wheel that rotating through
the main building of the Palace. Zhoe would send them up, and Zimel and and
his suppliers would have a business meeting overlooking the Atlantic. Physical
isolation provided security. Whatever Zimel acquired typically was loaded onto
a small boat and later ferried out to a freight ship headed toward the fledgling Israeli
state.
Last week we had one of those Israeli visitor moments where
bits of history snap together like the borders of a jigsaw, framing
what you've heard, read, and experienced. At the
Palmach Museum, we heard a fictionalized account of a dozen friends
who joined the first Israeli defense forces, and were told "Don't despair,
there's a ship coming from America with guns". Earlier in the day we
had visited Zimel's grave, and that ship was a storied account of one that
he helped to load. And when this registered with my kids, I told them
the story of the ferris wheel and Zhoe, whom they better know as their
grandfather Joel.
During the reading of the Passover
Hagadah, we hide a piece of matzah and later encourage the
children to search for it, rewarding the finder. Looking for the
afikomen, as it's called, was always a bit more of an
adventure in Zimel's house as you might run into a state assemblyman,
a soldier, or an unmarked box you shouldn't open. In Zimel's interpretive
Hagadah, he wrote that the purpose of hunting for the afikomen is
"to remind us that what is broken off is never lost as long as
our children remember the search." After 35 years, and through three
generations of our family, the search has returned results.